Hello sexy soul,
I’m Claire
I’m a Somatica™ Institute trained Sex and Kink Coach focused on helping survivors have hotter, more connected sex through core desire exploration and open communication.
Sex is one of the most incredible things this life has to offer, except when your pleasure gets buried under the trauma of purity-cultural, religious control, rape, assault, or domestic abuse (even emotional abuse!). Your unique sexuality becomes shadowed by the harmful ideals, doctrine, and dishonesty that come with that abuse. These lies set in over time; before you know it, you’ve lost your ability to connect to your core desires and what turns you on.
The truth is that our sexuality has no set limits, bounds, or definitions. It gets to be whatever we want it to be. Being sexually empowered means making informed choices around your sexuality and then living those choices through exploration, boundary setting, trust, and communication. These things create the necessary safety to truly unleash and surrender into the hottest, most connected sex of your life.
Set yourself free by rediscovering your lost core desires, dismantling the misconceptions, and returning sex to what it is: an erotic connection between two or more consenting adults.
Together, we will help you:
Understand yourself on a deeper and more conscious level.
Ask for what you want and no longer tolerate what you don’t.
Build trust in yourself and others.
Feel more clarity, joy, and peace.
Experience greater confidence.
Enjoy sex again.
Feel more connected to yourself and others.
“The damage of sexual trauma does not have to haunt you, it can be processed and stored like any other memory. ”
Pursue Your Wild was born from my journey out of sexual abuse and into the light of pleasure and connection with others.
I was born into a home void of love and affection. Instead, I learned the shame of cult-like religious indoctrination and the trauma of sexual abuse. For as long as I can remember, I felt ashamed of my body and confused about my sexuality, which led to low libido and avoidance of intimacy as an adult.
I began my journey to sexual freedom in 2016 when I decided to take my healing into my own hands through self-discovery and new experiences. Within 3 years, I was strong enough to walk away from my abusive marriage and into a whole new life of freedom.
First, I explored the swinger community as a newly single female, aka unicorn, and I loved it! I met amazing people and learned to stand on my own two feet. Next, I shifted gears into the ENM and kink community, where I began playing with and understanding my trauma and the impact it had on my sex life. After that, I started a flourishing career as a professional girlfriend, receiving hands-on experience with emotional intimacy and connection. Lastly, I attended the Somatica Institute, where I learned about core sexual desires and how to share those desires with others for better sex and relationships.
About Pursue Your Wild:
Today, after much self-discovery, I am happily settled in a safe, monogamous, and committed relationship that allows for all my beautiful kinks. In my free time, I like to crochet, read fantasy romances, cuddle, travel, and attend sex parties!
I’ve learned so much throughout the last 5 years, but the most noteworthy lessons are these:
-I deserve love and pleasure.
-Great sex can be a wonderfully healthy and regular part of my life.
-I have the power to heal and change from the inside out.
“Kink has the power to help heal our bodies, minds, and hearts. ”