Hello sweet soul,
I’m Claire
I help those whose sexuality has been harmed by religion and western culture reclaim their pleasure through self-exploration and authentic conversations!
Sex and intimate relationships are two of the most incredible things life has to offer. Still, their joy and pleasure can be overshadowed by the trauma of simply living in America, where religious purity messages are everywhere. It’s woven into the fabric of our nation. Rape, control, misogyny, grooming, and all types of sexual coercion make us feel like something vital has been taken from us because it has.
Although it may feel like it’s gone forever or worse that you never had it to begin with, let me tell you this: no one has the right to define or dictate your sexuality and relationships but you. They are yours to explore and embrace as you choose. Even in this puritanical nightmare, we call Murica’ it’s possible to live freely in your sexual expression. In my Sex Beyond Belief community I facilitate conversation in a group on whatsapp to help you rediscover your beautiful sexuality that lies hidden in the shadows, waiting to be freed. Together, we will help you unleash a more fulfilling sex life and create healthier, more connected relationships.
Set yourself free by rediscovering your desires, dismantling the patterns of misogyny and purity doctrine, adopting healthy intimacy habits, and returning sex to what you want it to be.
Together as a group, we will explore:
Healthy communication
kink and bdsm
non-monogamy
conscious monogamy
Agricultural and its effects on our sexuality
Sexual evolution
Consent, negotiations, and boundaries
Sexual mapping (learning more about your desires and urges)
Sex shame and its effects on our sexuality
“The damage of sexual trauma does not have to haunt you, it can be processed and stored like any other memory. ”
Pursue Your Wild was born from my journey of overcoming religious oppression and stepping into a life filled with pleasure, love, and connection with others.
I grew up in a home devoid of love and affection, surrounded instead by the shame of cult-like religious indoctrination and the trauma of sexual abuse. For many years, I felt ashamed of my body and confused about my sexuality, which ultimately led to a low libido and avoidance of intimacy as an adult.
In 2016, I took my healing into my own hands through self-discovery and new experiences. Within three years, I gained the strength to leave my abusive marriage and embrace a new life of exploration and reclamation. Initially, I explored the swinger community as a newly single woman, often referred to as a "unicorn." I loved the experience, meeting amazing people and learning to stand on my own two feet.
I then shifted to the ethical non-monogamy (ENM) and kink communities, where I began to engage with and understand my trauma and its impact on my sex life.
Following this, I started a successful career as a professional girlfriend, which provided me with financial security and valuable hands-on experience with emotional intimacy and connection.
Lastly, I attended the Somatica Institute, where I learned about core sexual desires and how to communicate those desires for better sex and relationships.
Today, I am enrolled in my second certification program through the Sexual Health Alliance, studying to become a certified sex coach/consultant with a focus on issues stemming from the shame associated with religion.
About Pursue Your Wild:
Today, after much self-discovery, I am happily settled in a safe monogam-ish relationship that allows for all my beautiful parts. In my free time, I like to crochet, read fantasy romances, blog, cuddle, travel, and attend sex parties!
“Kink has the power to help heal our bodies, minds, and hearts. ”